Monday, June 29, 2009

Samurai Night Fever

On Sunday, I came close to attending a kendo tournament in the South Bay. At the last minute, I found out I wasn't needed to help out at the A3M bone marrow drive, but the anticipation of dueling swords got me thinking about my own experience with a bamboo blade.

I'd almost forgotten that I was once a samurai in training. When I was in my early 20's and desperate to get in touch with my Japanese side, I took kendo lessons at a dojo in Monterey Park. Back then, an adult sword-fighting woman was a rarity.

Here are a few of my favorite kendo memories:

Tora! Tora! Tora! My sensei and classmates called me Tiger because my birth surname (I hate "maiden name") was Strother, pronounced Su-to-ra-da in Japanese. The middle part of the name, tora, means tiger.


The Kanji symbol in the center is for tiger.

There's something about a girl in uniform: Sometimes Kumie (my little-sister-like friend), her family and I would stop for food while wearing our kendo uniforms. It never failed: men would chat me up and then ask for my phone number. I felt like a Samurai seductress.

Lessons Learned: Fight through the pain and clean up after yourself: Once while I was practicing with an opponent, a sliver of glass became embedded in my bare foot. When I saw the trail of blood on the wooden floor, I asked the old-school Japanese sensei if I could stop. He nodded at my opponent and I knew I had no choice. I continued to wield my sword while smearing streaks of red on the floor. Of course, I was responsible for mopping up my own blood when the match was over.

If you go back and read old Cancer Banter posts, you'll find that I've never used the popular lexicon of battling or going to war with cancer or eosinophils. (I don't have a problem with other people using this language; it just never felt natural to me.) So why do I suddenly want to embrace my inner Samurai? To paraphrase Lance Armstrong, it's not about the sword.

According to this site that lists the top ten characteristics of a Samurai professional, the ultimate warrior maintains integrity, displays loyalty, is resolute, plans relentlessly, seeks advantage, continuously improves, flows with (not against), has personal discipline and self control, displays personal courage and acts industriously.

I especially like the idea of going with the flow:
Life is continuously in balance. Accept gracefully both victories and setbacks. Contending against instead of working with is a losing strategy. Go with flows. Yield what cannot be won. Adjust. Agility and flexibility are far stronger than direct opposition. Learn to change and progress endlessly.
So, which Samurai should I channel?


Toshiro Mifune as Yojimbo in The Seven Samurai?


Samurai John Belushi from Saturday Night Live?

Or Samurai Susan, who enjoys intimidating unsuspecting pooches.


Samurai can be so smug.


Moments later, I tripped, stained my gi, stubbed my toe and scraped my forearm. I think there just might be a lesson here.

11 comments:

Jean Spitzer said...

Tora--how great! Love the photos, especially the smug Tora.

wv:anklick, as in, one, and two and three anklick?

D. Thaddius said...

You're prettier than Belushi.

Anonymous said...

Wounded samurai! And was Betty hiding?

I want to be in the westernized version -- as Yul Brynner.

Ronni Gordon said...

Love the quote qbout going with the flow. I think I'll come back and re-read it from time to time.

I like the photos of Samuraii Sue.

Marcy said...

I LOVE the photos! You're the coolest samurai by far! Have a wonderful 4th of July! xo~

Sue G said...

Who knew that when my people chant, "Tora, tora, tora," they are really invoking the call of a fierce tiger.

Imagine their surprise when what they get is two ancient scrolls written in Hebrew.

Susan, tiger is the perfect description for you. You approach life and its challenges with a delicate balance of ferocity and gracefulness.

And, once in a great while, you trip, stain your gi, stub your toe, and scrape your forearm.

But it never stops you from experiencing life to the fullest!

Ann said...

I think Samurai Susan is perfect just as she is.

Susan C said...

Jean, Thanks for loving the smug tiger.

D.T. Prettier than Belushi? I hope so.

A.H. This samurai has a history of on-the-job injuries. Betty was safe inside.

Ronni, Yes, I really like that quote too.

Marcy, If cool and klutzy are synonymous, then I'm your cool Samurai.

Sue, "ferocity and gracefulness" PURRR - I really like that description.

Ann, Thanks! I think I'll stick with her.

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