tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9110153203470551170.post4218375598818554967..comments2023-11-05T01:13:16.257-08:00Comments on Cancer Banter: Fear of FallingSusan Chttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12178330935523896363noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9110153203470551170.post-17759069761412986162010-10-17T15:38:19.863-07:002010-10-17T15:38:19.863-07:00Susan,
This is so well written and I know these ar...Susan,<br />This is so well written and I know these are all issues that I have had and probably most other cancer patients. When I developed secondary cancers that triggered another fear. Being helpless in any way is a fear I struggle with.Nellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06927983874624510031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9110153203470551170.post-82337641279513783522010-10-11T12:56:38.401-07:002010-10-11T12:56:38.401-07:00Susan, just stumbled onto your blog, it's so w...Susan, just stumbled onto your blog, it's so well written. I just started one, so I'm checking out as many others as I can. Sorry your fear of falling came true, but hopefully you will be up and about sooner than expected. And who isn't afraid of wheelchairs? Good luck on your recovery.Nancyhttp://www.nancyspoint.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9110153203470551170.post-48586647850961392032010-10-10T23:03:49.822-07:002010-10-10T23:03:49.822-07:00I won't get near you again with a wheelchair, ...I won't get near you again with a wheelchair, that's for sure! ;-)<br /><br />I don't suppose you'll need one this time, unless there's a long walk to and from doctor's appointments.Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17451652843448766614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9110153203470551170.post-58887989163116678392010-10-09T19:22:11.865-07:002010-10-09T19:22:11.865-07:00I can't believe what a cogent essay you put to...I can't believe what a cogent essay you put together while dealing with a broken hip, and in the hospital, no less.<br /><br />Heal well.Jean Spitzerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13520415864511680025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9110153203470551170.post-86312201282295412332010-10-09T11:12:31.469-07:002010-10-09T11:12:31.469-07:00Hi Susan,
I think the best thing about fear is wh...Hi Susan,<br /><br />I think the best thing about fear is what someone said to me once - "It's just a fear, it doesn't make it real."<br /><br />Get better soon -- Lisa C.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9110153203470551170.post-50652309901568425932010-10-08T19:32:52.551-07:002010-10-08T19:32:52.551-07:00I agree: Beautifully written and expressed.
I thi...I agree: Beautifully written and expressed.<br /><br />I think we all have that fear, which becomes more and more low-grade as time passes but which comes to the surface if touched off. It's totally normal and will likely fade again once you're out of the hospital.<br /><br />I was on morphine once and it made me really crazy. They changed the pain meds and I was OK. Like you, I never liked taking so much that I felt out of control. But in addition to pain hurting, it's not good for you, so I did the same thing, asking for the smallest amount possible...except for when I was in excruciating pain and had a pain med pump.<br /><br />When it wasn't too bad, sometimes I got oxycodone with Tylenol to lower the unpleasant "trippy" effects of the oxycodone alone.<br /><br />Anyway, I bet you'll be out sooner than you know it and all of this will fade into memory and you'll be blogging about all the cool things you're doing (and cooking).Ronni Gordonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00036024135497392070noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9110153203470551170.post-38476089345125170262010-10-08T10:20:27.497-07:002010-10-08T10:20:27.497-07:00Good grief, Smooky! Well, I hope your fall occurre...Good grief, Smooky! Well, I hope your fall occurred while you were running to meet the pizza delivery guy. You could use the padding!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03757467145726729943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9110153203470551170.post-72042095837152889452010-10-08T10:15:45.324-07:002010-10-08T10:15:45.324-07:00My MIL lived with me for three years while she und...My MIL lived with me for three years while she underwent chemo. During that time, she fell and broke her hip. She was using a walker before she fell and wont let go of it now, even though it's been a year and a half since she fell. <br />From my little knowledge of all of this, if you want to walk, you will. Plain and simple. My MIL has been content to lay in bed and give up. I've only read for blog for a little bit, but I see none of that in you. <br />Stay strong. You can do it.Kellihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05835418660606605360noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9110153203470551170.post-75829091275845533262010-10-08T09:58:08.880-07:002010-10-08T09:58:08.880-07:00Susan, this is a beautifully-written, beautifully-...Susan, this is a beautifully-written, beautifully-expressed essay. Who doesn't feel the same way, have the same fear? It's not irrational at all. We know what the wheelchair symbolizes and we don't want to name it or face it.<br /><br />I know you must be sick of this. I'd love to give you advice, but you're in the hands of people who know so much more than I do.<br /><br />I'm fighting a cold. I'll see you as soon as it's gone. In the meantime, I hope others surround you, and I hope you accept their support.Petrea Burchardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13043950465171821852noreply@blogger.com